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Anonymous asked:

Dear Mistress Deb, how do you ensure that whatever you do to shel does not become abuse? Do you have guidelines? friends you talk to? Do you play it by ear and see what happens? So far shel has been quite resilient and has dealt more or less with everything you threw at her. Do you find she is becoming stronger in her slavery or weaker? Sorry, many questions.

Deb- She is coming stronger no doubt.  It is a fine line and have a few mentors.  The general guideline is to do nothing that will leave permanent damage or have significant health issues.  I have found that I gave to push myself to be more stern or strict at times as am always mindful of her health.  She has an amazing pain tolerance.

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Anonymous asked:

Congratulations. Every white woman deserves someone to abuse. As a Native American and what many would consider a loose nigger, I should be owned. Nevertheless, I am happy for you and your non nigger slave.

Deb- thanks 

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Anonymous asked:

Dear Mistress Deb, regarding time off, it doesn't matter so much what shel wants, you are her Mistress! Burnout is a real thing, and once it is there it is hard to undo. I understand based on what is written here, that shel has had a constant, very high intensity life in the last few years without any real time off. An evening here or there is not going to be enough. Given her personality she will never want to take a break, you'll have to make her take it. Doesn't matter if she gets bored.

Deb-  Thanks for the advice and appreciate it

debbietv asked:

Mistress Deb, amongst the cold comments of ice showers and urine and oatmeal my heart skipped to read how you were proud of shel , how she did well and how you missed her while you were away. A submissive exists to make her Domme proud and shel must be rightfully thrilled to know that she can do that for you. It will only make her strive harder and sets a standard for her to better. Sometimes in these situations we forget the warmth and humanity they contain too, it was a lovely post to read.

Deb-  thanks she does make me very proud 

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Anonymous asked:

Greetings Mistress Deb and slave. I hope both of you realize that outside Miss Amy's abusive words, the things She required of slave in the bedroom, especially just being in attendance in the room and cleaning Miss and lover, are part and parcel what being a slave is all about. In a true D/s relationship doing the acts slave was called upon to do should be expected, and viewed as normal duty for a slave, not extreme or unusual. Mistress Deb, did you know what Miss Amy was going to do to slave?

Deb-  Yes we had certain parameters and lots of discussions but she is a natural dominant.  She made Shel truly understand she was the superior woman and that is why she got her man plain and simple.  

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Anonymous asked:

Mistress Deb- when it comes to drinking piss, who has your slave serviced and did it drink from the source, a glass, a bowl, a bottle or lick it off the floor?

Deb- Numerous people and from the source and bowl are the usual

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Anonymous asked:

Greetings Mistress Deb. After reflecting on the level of humiliation and subspace Miss Amy took your slave, will you be accelerating or changing the direction of your training of shel based on how the experience has changed slave?

Deb-  It opens it up to her serving more and closer to a 24/7.  It has been nothing but positive so far

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Anonymous asked:

Greetings Mistress Deb or slave. What is Megan getting from her involvement? What is her motivation? Has she been given to understand there will be benefits to her down the road?

Deb-  Who would not to have control over their boss, LOL?  She gets some amusement and at times pay back plus exposure to a new lifestyle.  She is doing very well 

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